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May 18, 2008

Down for the count

Oh my.  I haven't been that sick in a long time.  Wednesday night it hit me -- some sort of flu-bug-virus-thingy -- I was out for three days.  Finally had solid food last night, and I'm feeling among the living today.  I know my body was rebelling...too much work, too much movement, too much, too much.  Even though I missed my fishing trip, the rest was worth it.  I didn't realize how tired I was.  Three days alone with your feverish thoughts puts life in perspective.  Time to stop sprinting.  Life is a marathon.

April 18, 2008

It's not all about China

I've still got time to share this kind of stuff with you (my source for this wishes to remain anonymous). :)

February 28, 2008

Stress is a wicked thing

I have restless leg syndrome (RLS).  Had it all my life.  Of course, until recently, it wasn't a "syndrome," it was just a weird, tickley-feeling thing my legs would do every once-and-awhile, usually when I'm tired.

It's so odd...you can just feel one of the episodes start to come on.  My leg will be just fine, but then I'll feel a tingle, and the tingle will intensify and move up my leg, then it turns into a ripple, then a wave, and then snap! My leg jumps.  The whole process takes about 3 seconds.  Then it repeats about every 60 seconds.  Yep, it's annoying.  But not harmful.

RLS is to my leg what stress is to the rest of my body and mind.  I start out calm (usually after some time off), but then my work calendar starts to fill up (tingle), tasks pile up (ripple), and un-resolved issues swell up (wave), then snap!

Unlike RLS, stress is harmful.  It's down-right wicked.  And even after 17 years in the business world, 13 years of marriage, and 5 years of parenting, I still don't have it figured out.  I've tried lots of remedies, potions, methods and gurus, but that devil stress keeps coming back. 

Amy knows the signs immediately.  "You're vibrating," she says.

One good thing about it (or not): my stress tolerance levels are at an all-time high.  I've noticed my ability to deal with stress (not relieve it) is kind of like building muscle.  Muscle builds when you break it down and it repairs itself.  That's how it's been for me.  You've heard the saying:  "That which does not kill me makes me stronger."  It may be bullshit, but it gets me through.

No real point to this post, I guess, but writing it has helped calm me down.

February 25, 2008

The Flu Sucks

We've all had it.  It's no fun.  My wife and I decided we'd get it at the same time, 48 hours ago.  The next 24 hours we slept.  Today we attempted a recovery.  I just ate my first meal in two days.  Amazing how a tiny little virus can lay waste to the human body.

February 16, 2008

Is it 2008 already?

Oh my.  It's February 2008.  What happened to the last four months?  Where I have been?  What have I been doing?  How in the world did I let four months go by without blogging (or reading any blogs, for that matter)?

I checked out.  I admit it.  I couldn't keep up.  I was overwhelmed with work and family and the social media space took a back seat.

But I'm checking back in.  I've missed it.

May 04, 2007

So what can you do with 3,800 PostIt Notes?

Play a practical joke on a colleague, of course.  This is just hilarious...one of the best work practical jokes I've seen in awhile.  3M ought to send us a few pallets of PostIt Notes for increasing their sales this month, huh.
The_rock

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February 26, 2007

I honestly don't know if I could do it

Or want to, for that matter.  Shut down my computer for one whole day, that is.  This site is asking us to.  I applaud the effort, and the site design.  But I'm not sure I understand the point.  I mean, I understand they are trying to remind people that there are other things to life.  But isn't it ironic that they're reminding us via a Web site?  I don't think I need a Web site to remind me about my off-line life.

Thanks for my friend Robin Knight for the pointer.

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January 27, 2007

The end is near

I'm nervous.  I'm waiting for the day when a New Orleans-like disaster will strike here in Lawrence, Kansas.  It won't be a flood -- probably a tornado.  We've had close calls in the last few years.

My anxiousness started in 1979.  That year a major ice-storm hit western Kansas, and our farm was without power for a week.  No electricity! How would we eat?  Flush the toilet?  Stay warm?

Farms and farm families are self-sufficient.  They have to be.  We had our own sources of water, gas and power.  Our farm had two water wells:  one with an electric pump and one with a windmill.  So we carried water in buckets from the windmill.  Fill the toilet tank and viola, you can flush.

Our stove ran on propane, and we had a large propane storage tank on the farm.  So we could heat water and make food.  What we lacked was a back-up generator, but my grandparents had one, so we lived with them for several days.  We always had food stored in our basement -- a deep-freeze full of meat; canned goods; other staples -- so hunger was never an issue.  And if things got really bad, we had a small arsenal of firepower and ammo so we could find and kill what we needed (but things never got that bad).

Soon after the storm, Dad bought a generator for our farm.  And it's a good thing he did.  In 1987, two blizzards hit back-to-back (people had t-shirts made up that said, "I survived the twin blizzards of 1987").  Crank up the generator, and boom, we had power.

I left for college in 1987 and never really thought about disasters.  Why would I?  I was "living on the grid."  Everything was supplied by whatever jurisdiction I was living in at the time.  Even when we were snowed in our apartment in Washington, DC, I could walk to a grocery store for food.  Over the years I've grown completely dependent on the system; the system takes care of all my needs.  And it wasn't until September 11, 2001, that I woke up.  What happens if the system breaks?

Since then I've been quietly building a store-house of items in the corner of our basement.  I call it our "Armageddon Corner."  My wife thinks I'm crazy.  I've got propane tanks, blankets, guns and ammo, a tent and sleeping bags.  I've stored water and put important documents in leak-proof bags.  But there are still several items on my "Armageddon List" I need to buy.  In short, I'm preparing for the day when the system breaks (it's not a question of if, but when).

I was reminded again this winter when western Kansas experienced another terrible ice storm.  My parents were without power for 14 days.  But they were comfortable because they were prepared.

My little stash of supplies won't save us from a nuclear disaster.  If something bad happened today, I'd still look to the city of Lawrence for help.  And that kills me.  Ultimately I don't want to be dependent on any system but my own.  That is security for me.

I started this post because I found a very cool online tool to store important documents called Keepyousafe.com.  I'm impressed.  They've positioned themselves as an "online safety deposit box."  I think they'll be successful.  Their blog has excellent tips and links to resources for disaster preparation.

I'm sure some of you are thinking I'm crazy.  Maybe.  But I won't be waiting on FEMA or the State of Kansas or my county government to show up and rescue me when the shit hits the fan. Will you?


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January 01, 2007

Be better

This year I resolve to make NO resolutions.  Oops.

That's about how fast my past new-year's resolutions were broken, so I might as well get the breaking part out of the way now, on day one.

I usually break resolutions because I create too many.  Or they're not realistic.  Or I forget them.

So this year I'm going to make it simple.  In 2007, I just want to be better.  That's it -- be better.  Better at everything.  Be a better father, a better husband, a better family member, friend, neighbor, American, writer, employee, leader -- blogger.  No hard numbers, no hard dates.  And it doesn't have to be A WHOLE LOT better...just better...moving forward.

I think I can remember that.

Happy new year everyone.

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November 19, 2006

I'm it

Jenne tagged me for an "I'm Weird" meme.  Here are the rules:

List 5 weird things about yourself or your pets. Tag 5 friends and list them. Then, those people need to write on their blogs about 5 weird things, and state the rules, and tag 5 more people. Don't forget to let the people you tag know by posting a comment on their blog!

I figured the person who best knows what's weird about me is my wife.  So here's what she said:

1. I constantly bounce my lag and/or play the drums with my fingers.  It's a combination of nervous habit and being a drummer.

2. I usually leave one bite of food on my plate, whether it's the corner of a sandwich or a bite of beans.

3. I have unusually small ears.

4. I notice peoples teeth.  I have to at least glance at someones teeth when they talk to me.

5. I'm very picky about how my clothes are folded.  They need to be nice and neat.  I try to reduce the wrinkles that way.

That last one might not be weird, but I'll admit, it is anal.

I'm tagging Mason, Johnnie, Hugh, Mike and JJ.